Hi Friends,
I am writing down what I believe and
think about few things,behaviors and interaction with people around me.
My Topic is "Tumhare Jaankaar
Vs. a Stranger Around You"....
People most of the time have faith on
person they know whether directly or indirectly in any city, place or in their
offices etc. We remembered that during our childhood where most of the time our
own family says that we don't need to talk to a stranger or took anything from
an unknown person.....
I just wanted to say that in today's
world of "Ghor-Kalyug", Stranger's are much better than
a Known person as being a Stranger they don't have any personal or
professional glitch or competition from a Unknown person to whom they are
helping,guiding in any sense and they might be ready to accept you within their
system or boundaries till they have trust that you won't hurt them in any
expect. But, on the other side of coin, a known person from whom you would be
seeking help or expecting that he/she would do something for you, will be a big
time mistake of your life. As, a known person they never want you to climb high
in ladder of your life......Guys. just have a look onto your past you will come
to know the actual fact or reality towards my above quote or statement. I am
not saying that 100% it would happen but most of the time I am damn assure of
it.
Expectation are the biggest mistakes of
our life.... where if we are expecting from our own than its quiet great but if
you are expecting from anybody at any point of life whether it would your wife,
brother, children etc. apart from your one pure relation in the world i.e. of a
Mother would be a problem. I can see and feel internally that market trend got
changed a lot in past 5-10 years.
I still remember that when we are kid,
we spend a lot of time with our cousins, uncle and aunts. Again, the people we
know a lot from our childhood but now people are more happy with people like
school/collage friends, whsapp friends, face book friends and people
who they don't know and ready to share about their personal life, problems,
beliefs where they exchange thoughts as they know if they share within their
cousins/Uncle/Aunt i.e. Mama, Maser, Chacha, Chachi, Bua, Brother, Sister, Cousins
etc. they will make fun out of it and they feel......"wo sab kya
bolenge"....Humara majak banega. So, I am not saying there is any harm to
tell anything on social media or to share your insight with your friends but I
am only pointing that we all feel more secure and have more faith on a stranger
rather than our childhood known person.
In today's fast moving and growing
world of India, most of the ladies and gents who never know about internet or
www.....has more knowledge and awareness about WhatsApp or Facebook. Now,
each one of them want to post any good happening in their life and want to
share publicly about their snaps, their foreign trips, about their child and
any good thing happening around them....but publicly where they most like
comments of their friends rather than family. So, the nuclear-ism or
individuality mind set has come more in families where not only elders but
children also came in competition while meeting at some family function where
they more refer what mobile their cousin carry, about their cousins dress and
what car, jewellery they are holding etc. etc....where we don't bother such
things wearing or carrying by any stranger or a friend.
So, life has changed a lot Indian mind
set in past decade where a running between families or known people has geared
up.....but in the end we all should remember "Kya laye the aur kya le
jaoge...,"/"Ek Din mit jayega matti ke mol aur Jag mein rhe
jayenge pyare tere bol...."/"EK Din sab theek ho jayega..."
People should help and respect other
person's feeling by understanding their circumstances rather than making fun of
any bodies situation or get run out of it by just thinking we are on safe
hand...
The importance of life is not earning
money and getting to the top but it’s all about giving respect to
each human kind weather we know him or not.
